Recently I heard something after a tough breakup that changed my view completely. You can't make a pig sing!
What does that mean I thought? Well the nature of this saying is to let us know that sometimes we want someone to change but they won't. Don't get upset, angry or sad when people don't change. You just need to see that you are trying to make a pig sing when it just won't. The only thing you will do is annoy the pig and upset yourself when it just won't.
When you break-up because things are dead end you need to see it as a gain that you avoided a disaster that you could of wasted years and years in a wrong situation. Let that pig go and find a new pig that will sing. If you keep this in mind during these types of breakups it will really help to move on with minimal despair.
So if you are going thru something like this or have a current relationship you feel is going no where...Let that pig go because it won't sing.