I feel falling in love is something similar to travelling in a flight. The only difference is that, unfortunately in life, there isn't a safety video that helps you to fasten your heart belt. Imagine, flying above the ground for thousands of feet with no hostess to help you with your concerns.Scary bit is you are the captain of your flight ( love life). How you fly it is in your hands.
The take off Life is beautiful.You are on cloud nine with emotions soaring high and steady. You feel like everything around you is so small and all that you can think of is you and your loved one. The world suddenly goes below you as you soar into the clouds with loads of dreams and expectations.
The Cruise Life seems ok although you deal with some turbulence. You tell yourself, it's just a bumpy cloud and it will go away. You continue to dream of your happy place where you are destined to go.All the disagreeing and arguments result in make ups and celebration.
Inflight Entertainment You have your passionate work, friends and family who take some of your time .They provide you a sense of feeling that somehow you are enjoying your journey. While you stare at your screen, an announcement pops up.
The Warning There is a big wave of shake. The relationship drops altitude. All of a sudden, everything that once appeared small starts to look bigger and clearer. Your patience engines are losing fuel. There is so much of smoke and you have no idea why you got into this mess .But your refusal to give up makes your relationship glide. You simply hope that you will slowly climb back into that airspace where you were once stable.
The Emergency landing Nothing works and you declare may day. You leave everything behind that you once carried into this relationship. All your emotions and your dreams. All that you care about now is to stay alive and get back home to see your family. You hit and go beyond the run way. Suddenly your journey becomes a matter of public interest and it is on social media that an emergency landing took place.
The black box You try hard to find out what went wrong.You go over every fight and every word said.Then everything makes sense.You close the black box and never open it again.
You got out alive ;your heart just survived a heart crash but moving on is simply too painful. You remember you ought to clear customs and eventually move onto immigration.Nothing should stop you from loving again.
Trust that you will meet someone lovely and board the flight of love all over again.