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Being in a committed relationship is a good thing .No I am not kidding . Yeah it sure is ,afterall you have someone who has to listen to you and eat whatever you cook :)

However the area of communication is always a puzzle to me. Why is it, the same language or words can be understood by genders differently. I have wondered, wonder and still wondering.

Giving men the benefit of doubt, they may say things in a straight forward way, but I wonder why we look at it differently.

I have learnt that few of these reactions aren't intended. They just happen .

He says : You look beautiful today.
She hears : I have never seen you beautiful before.

He says : I am in a lunch catch up with Sally.
She hears : I like Sally .


He says : I am catching up with friends tomorrow night.
She hears : You have to put the kids to sleep tomorrow.
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He says : Can I help you with the dishwashing ??
She hears : I am going to ask you something for which I want you to say yes.

For example,if he just got off the phone after speaking to his sister Mary,
He says : Mary, uh uh sorry honey can you please pass me the plate.
She hears : I love my sister more than you.
( Obviously the plate was not passed. It might have been thrown .No way I am not suggesting this at all)
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He says : I will take you shopping may be tomorrow.
She hears : I don't like to go shopping with you. Please go with your girlfriends.
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At Dinner He says : Did you have some soup?
She hears : The soup you made tastes funny, you should try it .
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He says : Give me a break.
She hears : I am breaking up with you.
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He says : I love you
She hears : I love you for now, please check with me again tomorrow.
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He says : Your friend is a good cook.
She hears : I like her cooking better than yours.
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He says : Good night baby.
She hears : I am too tired to listen to why your best friend didn't return your call.
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He says : Let's talk about it later.
She hears : We are never going to talk about this.
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He says : I am going to a work function.
She hears : I am going drinking and will come home late or even the next day.
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He says : She looks good doesn't she.
She hears : I am attracted to her.
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All said and all heard, I think we women are blessed with the nature to look at everything in a different perspective. We do accept certain times, but sometimes it is just way too tempting not to think the other way. We do trust and love unconditionally but being this way is who we are.

Love to all the woman. Be proud of yourself; it's not just you.

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